relationship magnet.
The reason we cling to relationships is because we are clinging to that version of ourselves embodied by someone else.
When we learn to be sovereign, we no longer enter relationships that force us to cling - instead, they make us feel innately + casually comfortable.
When you are in relationships with individuals that don’t respect your boundaries, you open your aura up to negative attacks that can hurt you if you aren’t aware of your energy on a consistent basis.
It’s okay to communicate and interact with people who don’t have your best interest at heart.
BUT THINK ABOUT THAT -
why do you even really want that?
Is it because you’re afraid of actually committing and opening up to someone on a level of compassion and true expression?
Or is it because you don’t feel that you are worthy enough of attracting what you actually want so you settle for less than you deserve because at least that seems attainable.
But when you are involved in these relationships, you also open yourself up to being influenced by the opinions of those whom you are close to.
It’s important to manage your close and everyday encounters accordingly, making adjustments when needed and discarding of anything that isn’t serving growth.
Because you’re busy being distracted by the opinions of people who don’t really want the best for you (as a result of trying to repair the relationship with your parents who also mimicked this dynamic), you limit yourself from expanding in the sense of actually attracting more expansive people who are in alignment with what you desire.
Your time and energy is being used to maintain relationships that are no longer serving you when you could be using it to create more prosperous semantics and therefore, scenarios for yourself.
You also learn to create a mental barrier towards anything that seems remotely expansive or operates on the frequency of change because of your inability to self-regulate, which is usually what leads you to be in relationships with individuals who are praying for your downfall in the first place.
Some people benefit from you staying small.
It really is just that simple.
You have to be the person who says no.
You have to be the person to stands up for yourself.
You have to be the reason you don’t stay small.
Get big.
Be big.
Boldness is the passion that will drive you into the future, all expenses paid.
Stop self-sacrificing as a means of “saving” your relationships.
Consciously choose to let them go.
The ego is what desires to cling.
When we are in a constant state of freedom, freedom from control, we begin to accumulate power that gives us more intuitive power + charisma than we could ever imagine.
Serenity comes when you learn to go with the flow.
It’s also necessary to direct your flow in the direction in which you seek, which is why establishing structure + a foundation for yourself + your goals is super important.
How can you hold yourself accountable?
What would make you thrive the most?
How do you feel when you move through emotions?
Do you move through life with ease or resistance?
How can you create more flow in your life?
What mental attitudes are you willing to let go of to get to where you want to go?
How do you feel about the magnitude of your ability to change the world around you?
What is your self-concept like?
Do you feel like your voice is powerful?
Do you feel like you are meant to be heard?
Why or why not?
What is driving you?
Why is that driving you?
Does that feel good?
Who are you when you embody that feel good energy?
How can you show up as her in other areas of your life?
In what ways are you looking to expand?
How do you want to grow?
What’s your plan?
I can teach you whatever you want.
But it’s all about focus.
When we focus on the microcosm, we can then influence the macrocosm and vice versa.
By focusing on our daily habits, actions, thoughts, feelings + inaction, we can determine where to place our focus so that we may become more stable in our discipline towards our desires.
It is not about not wanting.
It is about accepting that you cannot always have.
Sometimes you have to give.
And give.
And give some more.
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